Opening the Door
At Saranam, the day families move into their new apartments we fondly refer to as “Move-In”. On this day, families finalize paperwork, review our handbook with staff, and get keys to their new homes. It is a day full of many feelings- excitement, nerves, shock, happiness. All together a sense of overwhelm. The adults literally open the door to their next journey, as a parent shared, “I felt like it opened a door to new opportunities”.
Step in a New Direction
Prior to Move-In day, all the families already completed a few steps at Saranam. The parents have submitted applications, completed a drug test, been interviewed by Program staff, and met with their case manager to review the Welcome Packet. From the application closing deadline to move-in day is about three weeks. The Program staff works with great purpose and urgency. Saranam has homes ready for families and want them to move in promptly. Then we can start to stabilize the family unit, begin life skill classes, and set goals for their families’ futures. Here is our current application process timeline.
Parents hold the KEY
The morning of Move-In, families start to arrive at Saranam’s offices. They meet with their Case Manager or Program Director to review the handbook, finalize paperwork, and then are given keys to their new home. On the keychain is a little silver house. They hold the key in
their hands with hope, a rush of excitement, and resilience. Adults open the door slowly truly not knowing what is on the other side. Many are extremely surprised by all the home preparations that have taken place. Beds are made, shelves are stocked, rooms are decorated, and the towels are out ready to go. Staff waits at the door for a proper invitation into the home. The Housing Coordinator gives them a tour and points out different aspects of home and maintenance tips. For example, she tells them about the dishwasher, water heater, and the homemade casseroles and soups in the freezer that were made by local church groups. If they signed a media release form, a staff member takes a picture of them on the couch or somewhere in the home.
Home Sweet Home
The families are overwhelmed by different parts of the home. We’ve heard them mention how their child will be so excited to have their own bed. Some have said how their children haven’t had their own toys before. We have also heard how some families haven’t had an oven in a few months. Many moms mention all the dishes in the cabinets ask “who’s going to wash all those dishes!?” By far, the parents are excited for their children. And at the same time, they start to feel small feelings of relief. That relief grows and transforms over time as they settle in, get to know their neighbors, and build trust in their community. For tonight, their first night, they know where they are going to be staying, and not just for tonight, but for the next two years!
“Now, more than ever before, I have felt a sense of freedom and security since coming to Saranam. My son and I are surrounded by caring and compassionate people; they look after us, help resolve our problems, and strive to equip us with the skills needed for a successful and fulfilling life in the future. Moreover, new people have joined our community—it is truly wonderful to witness new life being born. Thank you, guys, for everything you do; your efforts are not in vain. I pray for each and every one of you, and every morning when I open my eyes, I give thanks to the universe.” ~ current Saranam parent
Each family has their own story about how they came to Saranam. We respect and applaud the families for their courage to show up and make a change for their families. Some arrive with only their backpacks, and some arrive with a carload. However they arrive, we are glad they are here and we believe they are exactly where they need to be on their journey home.
If you would like to help support families at Saranam or get involved here are a few ways.